It's difficult for me to even articulate my difficulty.
I don't think it's anger about the injustice of her struggles with a buffet of chemotherapies.
I don't think it's frustration about the cycle of hope and despair I've seen her go through.
I don't think it's sorrow for the days she will not have ahead.
Although all of these things are catalogued in my emotions, these are not the root causes of my own pathos.
I think it's fear.
And, if I am fearful about my friend's transition from this side of eternity to the other side, what does that imply about my own inevitable transition?
C.S. Lewis said, "Has this world been so kind to you that you should leave with regret? There are better things ahead than any we leave behind."
The first time I read those words I believed them, I think.
But, these past two days give me pause.
One good quote deserves another, so here's another:
I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze than should be stifled by dry-rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow than a sleepy and permanent planet. The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time. (Jack London)
I am all for living and not simply prolonging. But, I wonder why I am seemingly unconvinced about the better things ahead just now.
I'm calling C.S. Lewis. I'm using a spiritual shout-out on Christianity Cash-Cab. I don't know the answer and time is running out.